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Involving Children in Household Chores: A Family Approach


1. Negotiate a Fair Schedule

Start by sitting down with your household members—parents, kids, and anyone else living together. Create a list of daily, weekly, and monthly chores that need attention. Discuss openly which tasks each person dislikes and which they don’t mind. Remember that everyone’s time is equally important, including kids’. Consider the following steps:


  • Trade-Offs: If there’s a chore everyone hates, agree to take turns doing it.

  • Equal Mental Load: Divide the “mental load” of cataloging and tracking chores fairly among all family members.


2. Calmly Discuss Frustrations

When chore division isn’t working out, avoid negative absolutes like “You never…” or “I do everything.” Instead:


  • Express gratitude for tasks well done.

  • Use “I” statements to explain desired behavior changes.

  • Define what “done” means for each task to avoid feeling short-changed.


3. Create Good Habits

Just like any other habit, completing household chores requires practice. Here’s how to instil good habits in your kids:


  • Break Down Chores: A general instruction like “clean your room” can be vague. Break it down into smaller tasks, such as making the bed, putting away toys, and dusting surfaces.

  • Fun Tools: Make cleaning enjoyable by using colorful and fun products. Swap a regular dust cloth for a feather duster or let them mix their own cleaning spray.

  • Team Effort: Boring tasks become bearable when done together. Pair up siblings or involve the whole family in tidying up.



4. Motivate and Reinforce

Motivation plays a key role in getting kids to participate willingly:


  • Model Behavior: Show enthusiasm for chores yourself. Kids learn by observing.

  • Chore Together: Initially, do chores together until your child can handle them independently.

  • Clear Expectations: Write down each person’s daily or weekly chores so they’re easy to remember.

  • Positive Feedback: Praise their efforts and celebrate completed tasks.

  • Highlight Accomplishments: Discuss why a particular job matters and how it contributes to the family’s well-being.


5. Age-Appropriate Chores

Assign tasks based on your child’s age and abilities:


Pre-schoolers (Ages 3-5):

  • Put away toys

  • Wipe surfaces with a damp cloth

  • Sort laundry (matching socks)


School-Age Kids (Ages 6-12):

  • Make beds

  • Set the table

  • Sweep floors

  • Water plants


Teens (Ages 13+):

  • Vacuum

  • Wash dishes

  • Clean bathrooms

  • Do laundry


Remember, consistency is key. Establish routines and make chores a regular part of family life. By involving children in cleaning chores, you’re not only maintaining a tidy home but also teaching them responsibility and teamwork. Happy cleaning! 🧹🌟

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